In Episode 5, Laura and Hayley delve into the concept of soul contracts and soul families, exploring how these relationships shape our experiences in life. They discuss the importance of understanding these dynamics for personal growth and emotional healing, emphasising that the roles we play in each other's lives are predetermined and serve a greater purpose. The conversation highlights the significance of free will, the lessons learned through challenges, and the interconnectedness of past lives. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace radical self-acceptance and recognise that life is happening for them, not to them.
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Channelled Message by Hayley Barkla - Copyright 2025
Understanding Soul Family
The presence of soul family in the life of all beings is to be the supportive structure for growth. Ah… alas it can come in a myriad of ways, however the overriding force of light behind such unions is one cemented in the growth and girth of the individual at heart.
The parameters with which you use the term soul family need some addressing. There are indeed expressions that exist indirect “relation” to you in any given incarnation of your reality. However, the “family” is a loose guide to be extended to all fractions of consciousness—the limitation of which is boundless.
But for now, let us walk it back a notch as we home in on the collapse of your social/civil structure. This is what arises when the bereft intelligence of certain individuals wanders aimlessly amongst the sweet envelope of consciousness.
Within your forever, depleting society, earth beings are subliminally infiltrated by the notion that all takes place “TO” them and not “FOR” them. Let us first start with this premise. IF the standard human expression expects the world to take place TO them, then there is no ability to perceive that a soul family or soul contract could even exist. All is on the outside to penetrate the life they live and nothing is therefore foretold or forewarned.
As they wander around the outskirts of their own self-awareness, they are reluctant to see the greatness in which they reside. The truth of which is ever fulfilling and ever expanding. So, you have a planet replete of “unconscious” consciousness existing and behaving in such a detached state of presence that their role remains unattained.
When the revolt happens on your earth – AND IT WILL – this is when the compounding factor of soul family will become a “DEER IN THE HEADLIGHTS” moment, as the unawakened souls realise their role in their own demise, suffering and confusion. They have created and DO OWN THEIR OWN SHIT. All realised, immediately.
So, how do you approach the topic of soul family with a herd of people that know no such thing? You must tread lightly to bring aboard the many. The subject, as we said, is a mammoth undertaking.
Start by suggesting the power of our own creation. We experience the Earth life as an embodied source of light/spirit, in which the individual soul brings to being a frame of reference to BE HERE, PRESENT and ALIVE. Once the soul ignites itself into form, then the ability to freely choose your undertakings takes place – OR DOES IT???
Free Will in Soul Contracts - The Screenplay of Your Life
And this is where the mark of the soul family comes into play. We all have a will – a free will – to partake in the earthly expression of self. This is a chosen moment by the soul, prior to their incarnation on the physical side of the earth construct. At this point however, you do so under no illusion of the escapades one may face in the life task they have chosen to experience. This free will to choose your task also correlates to the expectations of said task. Just saying you want to be a baker is one thing – saying you want to be a French artisan extraordinaire is another! And this is where soul family or soul contracts or may we offer, soul conditioning comes into play.
We choose the task, and to ensure the delivery of said task meets our expectations, we choose the incarnate beings to express themselves into the field. These selected selves— that pose as our parents, our enemies, and entrancements and like – offer the playground in which to wholly experience the task at hand. You have divinely orchestrated the stage, the set, the characters and the lighting – all to envisage a grand outcome for your production. All that remains are the words – the script, shall we say – the nuances of your transformative journey into the earth vehicle you, yourself, selected.
These characters you have selected to partake in your production have been versed with their character profiles. They understand if they are the antagonist, the love interest, the stranger waiting in the wings, the teacher, the complicator, the general nice guy or the wicked witch. All come forth to play out your production – set under the mindful eye of the producer – YOU.
Now IF – IF your people understood what it was like to have life happen FOR them and not TO them, then they would equally understand that they control or controlled the external presence of what they perceive. They would see each character in their production in their full truth and step back to realise the task at hand will be fortified or forgotten amongst their guidance.
The problem is most do not know the TASK at hand until it’s too late and they have set blame onto everyone that has ever crossed their path in the negative. Rather than understanding they themselves cemented their arrival long before they set foot in their direction.
This, then begs the question – should one focus on the external play to reveal the task at hand, or should one focus on the internal to seek the answer to their soul undertaking? This is the counterbalance of being human! There are clues and characterisations all around to mirror and mask the real reason oneself decides to embody. What a game, right!!!
The expression of a soul-led individual will be one that embraces the outer world with all the grace it can garner for it delivers the experience of self-fulfilment.
How do Soul Contracts Take Form Prior to Incarnation?
This will be akin to you all sitting around the dinner table and debating who should do what in the kitchen e.g. dishes, cooking, clearing, filling the ice cube tray, taking the rubbish out. It is literally much the same. The expressions all confirm their willingness to partake, and then the task is set and the role plays extend from there.
Remember, each soul has their own TASK and so, the character roles overlap in how they show up in the different expressions of self. This is OVERLY COMPLEX to explain in words – think of the greatest mathematical feat and you’ll still be in the minutia of the complexity. But it is simple in its expression once earth side – EXCEPT YOU ALL FORGET INSTANTLY YOU PREPLANNED THE EVENT! So, you all come wired with some unconscious settings but unaware of your truth in each situation… UNTIL YOU AREN’T.
And this is the greatest lesson. The full awareness you are the creator of it all – good and bad, happy and sad.
Do not delude yourself from these riches – you hold the full powerful intent over the reality you wish to express and experience.
Why Do We Reincarnate?
To express and express and express. Sole reason.
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